What are the best charactoristics a grandmother should have?

hiya, i think you are back in the 1940.im a gran to 13 grandchildren,and im not like that at all.i love all my grandchildren to death.i even have a 1yr old great grand daughter.i don't smell of cough sweets, i smell of Charley Perfume, does not read the bible,more like read women's magazines. and im never there when they phone,or even visits.im out enjoying myself.so you need to start looking at today's grandmothers.even bingo is to old for today's grandmothers. sorry xxx