Question about emotions, grief, love, and pregnancy?

its going to be hard but really and truly staying with him would be a bad thing even though you love him and i really think you do you need to look at it this way he is selfish and if he has another woman on the side that he is open about then he don't respect you the only way you should forgive him is if he puts her far away from him and never looks back you need to think about this you are caring so much about hurting him you have forgotten how bad he hurt you cut your ties with him all together don't even speak to him and with that in time you will be able to move on i promise but from the things you have said you have already made up your mind in that case think of this if you bring a kid into this world with a man who does not care enough to respect you enough not to cheat he will do it again and this time it will be worse cause you have a child that will have to deal with seeing you unhappy and the father being unfaithful that in itself is why you need to think clearly about having this man in your life at all you want a baby have one just not with him find someone who cares about you and wants the same thing you want don't be someones sloppy seconds